Your life is yours to figure out what you want and to follow your dreams, whatever you decide those are. When you make your passions the focus of your life, you will live to the fullest. What makes you happier, healthier, more creative, and more productive? For me, I like to read, learn, implement, and share. My creative outlet is writing. In order to take a step toward our dreams we must believe in our self. my power phrase is “you got this” Possibilities are endless when we believe. Manifesting may be a little far fetched for some and everything for another.


looking out for you

Saying “no” is ok if its against your opinions, values, and needs. Boundaries protect and define us. Setting boundaries leads to better relationships. By setting boundaries you are showing what you allow or are comfortable with. Tune into you feeling and being honest is a step to setting boundaries. Realize that others personal needs and feelings are not more important than you own. Don’t let anything or anyone else define you. First we must know what we want, give yourself permission to ask for it or say, “No”.  Ask without an apology, we must let go of guilt. Why feel guilty for being who you are?

Know when its a unsolvable situation and continual conflict. All problems have a solution. If setting your limits don’t work it may be time to walk away. Once we let go of a situation we tell our self is a “problem” and its really just a unavoidable conflict we can better focus our energy on real problems with real solutions.

  Don’t sacrifice yourself for others.